Monday, October 1, 2018
Dale, I feel terrible that I didn't have the chance to tell you in person, but I want you to know now just how much you mean to me. I actually had some words put together that I wanted to say to you in person when I got back home, but since I didn't have the chance I know you'll be able to see them now. Growing up with a father who left when I was so young, I went my first 10 years without a male role model, my mother's age until we met you. My grandfather was very special to me and was a father in many ways but he was still older and there was still somewhat of a gap for a male role model my mother's age. Until you came into our lives.
In so many ways, you were like a step dad to me, and I owe a great deal to you. Between going camping, and hiking and shooting with you, as well as many other things, you really made a lot of dreams come true for me. There were many things, things that have strongly influenced the man I am today, that were directly attributed to you. You fostered my interest in the outdoors, you helped influence my studies at RPI, you helped shape my career ambitions and you even taught me how to drive stick. When I think back there wasn't much that you weren't involved in during my formative years. When I got to work as an engineer at GE during my co-op, I was so proud that I got to work at the same place as you, thanks in large part to your influence and support. When I got to share some of my experiences with my time working for the Department of Defense with you, it meant the world to me that you were interested and impressed with what I had accomplished. And most recently when I have been able to share some of my knowledge, experience and opinions as a federal law enforcement officer with you, it made me feel like I really had grown up and achieved what I wanted.
I truly regret that you won't be here in person to see my first child upon her arrival this December, a daughter of my own. I can only hope to be as patient and helpful to her as you were with me. I truly hope I've made you proud of me, and the man I've become. I truly hope you know how much you've meant to me. Thank you for everything.
Rebecca, though we only met a few times, I hope you'll reach out if there's anything I can do. Please accept my condolences for your loss. You and your family will remain in my prayers.
